Real talk. Real life. No apologies.
I’m Shirl — writer, strategist, and a Black woman who says what she means.
I'm Shirl.
I’ve spent 30 years in boardrooms and community spaces watching people dance around the truth. Say It Lady is what happens when I stop doing that.
New here? Start with these three.
Three essays that tell you exactly what this place is.
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They Think I Am In My 30s. I Am Not. Here Is Why.
People find out my age and their face does a thing. Friends see me after a few weeks and say something. I smile politely like I do not know exactly why. I know exactly why.
Your Boss Needs You More Than You Need Them. Act Accordingly.
She has more experience in her pinky than her boss has in his entire body. She is not bitter. She is not plotting. She is just sitting in the meeting, face completely neutral, watching someone make a decision she would have never made in this life or the next.
Walter Is My Best Friend. He Earned It.
Walter has seen me crawl out of some dark places. That is why he gets homemade snacks, dehydrated liver, and blackberries I personally despise. Loyalty is everything. And in this house, it gets rewarded.